DESIRE BY DESIGN

Men’s Embodiment Retreat

Vancouver Island, BC, Canada

SUMMER 2024 is sold out!

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Welcome to Desire by Design, a men's retreat to enhance your understanding of your personal erotic signature.

This unique experience goes beyond the ordinary, focusing on intentionally shaping and understanding your desires through the field of Somatic Sex Education.

Learn to channel and cultivate your desires in a purposeful and conscious manner. Join us on this transformative journey!

  1. Focus on knowing your full authentic sexual self

  2. Examine preset beliefs about relating to other men and deepen into community and friendship with other men

  3. Daily Somatic Sex Education sessions with experienced female practitioners

  4. Gourmet and locally sourced meals by tom kral

  5. Luxury Vancouver Island location

  6. 1:1 support with Cosmo Meens & Ori Dahan

  7. Nightly men’s group

  8. leave Physiologically changed from a week long immersion into pleasure, connection and relaxation

daily somatic sex education sessions

What makes us different? We believe pleasure and desire are guiding forces behind how we navigate all of life, and until we are aligned with these deepest parts of ourselves, we can never fully know ourselves. We offer daily somatic sex education sessions with trained and experienced female practitioners. You will be assigned to a practitioner and go through a 5 session arc over the course of the retreat. This is an opportunity to explore hands-on experiences in arousal, embodiment, and desire.

Meet the Team

  • "The Self does not need to be cultivated or developed, beneath the surface of the protective parts of trauma survivors, there exists an undamaged essence, a self that is confident, curious, and calm."

    Richard Schwartz, PhD

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