Casia & Cosmo
Casia and Cosmo met at their Somatic Sex Educator training in 2017 and fell in love. In the way that you meet a stranger and are completely enthralled by them. Cosmo made the trip to Toronto a month later, where Casia was a metropolitan sex educator celebrity, to continue their saga. They taught together, did 4-handed erotic massages, vacationed, went to family reunions, and Cosmo returned back to Victoria. Casia followed him 6 weeks later and never returned to Toronto.
They have been married since 2018, and have had one child together, with 3 other children from other mothers also in the home. They navigate the mundanities of everyday life; chores, child-tending, financial responsibilities, complex family dynamics, and have prioritized their sex life daily over the course of their lives together.
One of their favourite ways to work together is to work with couples, where their relationship and D/s dynamic can be used as a teaching tool to support others in long-term relationships to keep the fire burning in an authentic, and integrity-based way.
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rope / suspension
New to rope? Have some basics and want to learn how to integrate it erotically? Eager to learn how to suspend your partner? Join Casia and Cosmo in a Rope Immersion Retreat.
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deepen intimacy
Let’s find out where your blocks are and where there is space to shake and revive intimacy in your connection. We will work individually with each person and together to find new pathways into each other.
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rituals for play & longevity
Let’s create some long term planning for you and your beloved to stay committed and into each other. Recipes for novelty and erotic exploration!
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kink dynamics
Have you been curious in expanding your erotic horizons into the realm of kink? Let us support you in getting clear about how you want this to play out in your life. Whether it’s occasional play or stepping into a 24/7 dynamic, we LOVE this topic and we can spends days exploring this with you.
FAQs
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We run all of our couples immersions in Victoria, BC, or just outside of the city. We arrange a space for you and your partner to stay and sleep and we come and spend the day with you.
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We will arrive on location around 10 AM and stay until before or after dinner. Sometimes we may encourage you to have dinner together without us to process how your time together has been and to lean into the tools we have offered during the day.
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Immersions are $3500/day and we have a 3 day minimum booking. We recommend 4 or even 5 days.
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Your accommodation for your time with us, all of your meals and snacks, and if your time with us is over 3 days we include a fun and relaxing excursion in Victoria. Your time with us includes 4 hours of bodywork a day, 3 hours of coaching and discourse.
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As two Certified Somatic Sex Educators we have the capacity to work with each person in the couple individually, or to do 2:1 (two of us with one person) or 2:2 in which case we use our relationship as a method of teaching. Cosmo may showcase how to touch/tie/interact with Casia as a way to preface an activity. Casia may touch/tie/interact with Cosmo. We can do this in a way that offers a broader container of learning as our relationship is developed and stable in a teaching environment.
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Somatic Sex Education provides the body an opportunity to learn through experience. When you have a committed partnership, we encourage the learning to occur within the container of your relationship so that you get the greatest benefit in your life (the juice of learning is still there when you leave). Unlike 1:1 Somatic Sex Education, Cosmo and Casia can engage with each other as a example and teaching tool for you and your partner. It’s like sex camp for your relationship.