A father, a husband, a full-time women’s erotic bodyworker, Cosmo graduated the Somatic Sex Educator program with his wife, Casia Sobolewski, in 2017 and begun a journey into the immense and life-giving field of supporting people in their pleasure.

Recruited by Pamela Madsen of Back to the Body almost immediately after he graduated, he has logged over 2000 hours working in immersive containers with women, working within a triadic model alongside female support and therapists.

He is an erotic philosopher, exploring the depths and truths of who we are as people and how do we navigate life in a way that supports our highest thriving, in pleasure, in truth-seeking, in discipline, in love, in obsession, in connection.

After over 6 years of facilitating The Apollo Project: Retreats for Men, he is inspired to continue working with other men, recognizing the importance of male friendship, communication, and vulnerability. He could spend days in conversations about how men are, instead of how they should be, and how we can support them in their highest integrity.

Supported by his wife/partner in divine union, Casia, he developed The Anatomy of Desire, a method for consent.

“High arousal flows from the tension between persistent problems and triumphant solutions.”

- Dr. Jack morin